Today in Paradise: You may not know who used it first, but you know the phrase: “dark night of the soul.” Most of us have suffered in that desperate, airless place. Recently, though, I’ve been chained to the dank, dark night of customer service. Phone wrecks: Yesterday I pissed off people in three states and they returned the favor.
I refi’d with Citibank, signed the papers in a hurry that they shrilly insisted on (“Your rate will expire!!” So, yes, I missed the error) and then I corrected the address when they sent me a card asking if all was correct. No, you left off the “Ct.” following the street name. Like “Blvd” or “Ave” my little condo is on a Ct. It was when I wrote each application form and it still sat there when I received docs from Citibank. On that little gravel side street. But Citibank’s appraiser–and then the title company, Southwestern Title, lost my Ct. A lady at Southwestern Title nervously claimed they were responsible only for the “legal” description. Oh really? You’re not supposed to get the street address right? You’re a TITLE company. I called her again but she hid.
Citibank insisted, though I provided the correct address initially and paid them thousands of $, I still had to change it now, at the county office a thousand miles away. Two Citibank managers, sighing, hissing, snarling, essentially ordered large, yellow earthmoving machines to hook up their cables to my small Ct. and drag it away to the impound lot. My condo neighbors, trying in vain to find our alley, are going to be awfully mad. Claudia, I’m sorry!
* {Disclaimer: Whining in Part I has no connection with the poem of Part II.}
“The dark night of the soul”: John of the Cross‘s words. Some of the many opponents to St. Teresa de Avila kidnapped her friend John of the Cross in December of 1577 and locked him in a Toledo prison room.
His cell measured six feet by ten. One small, high window admitted feeble light. The monks jailed and starved him in bitter cold followed by summer’s smothering heat. They beat him; when he did not cry out, they accused him further. Friendless, spoken against, bloody and scarred and tempted to give in, John of the Cross went down into a dark night.
This long dark night wore away reason, will, and senses. Memory and imagination failed to comfort; it seemed that even prayers could not pass the thick stone walls. His soul emptied: it knew nothing, it was nothing. “I went out of myself,” he wrote.
Eventually he escaped. Out of that captivity and an ecstatic state afterward sprang his enduring poems and commentaries defining the soul’s dangerous journey. In “En un Noche Oscura,” he tells how, guided only by a lover’s burning longing for God, he made his way from a quietened house alone, blessing the dark, secret night he walked through, for within its emptiness he met his Beloved. All ceased then—world, senses, self. “My cares,” John wrote, “I left among the lilies, forgotten.”
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We lost Christopher Hitchens last night–erudite, fearless, dazzling word magician. I don’t think he’d like to Rest in Peace.